... 5 days ago.
As I am getting used to my work routine, Aaron is still trying to get used to his routine of moving from one house to another, changing hands from me to MIL. He seems to be finding it difficult to adapt during this transition period, compared to Champion and lil' President. He cries when he is being fed, he cries when he wants to sleep..
I hope he gets through this phase soon.. Then, it would be easier for MIL to handle him. As it is she is already taking care of Champion and lil' President apart from the other grandchildren aged 7, 8, 12 and 15!
On the other hand, I am glad to be back to work after nearly 3 months being away. Although I still feel I haven't rested enough, I think I need to get back to work. I don't see myself staying home and taking care of 3 boys. For this, I salute MIL for being able to take care and bear with so many..
Thanks to jazzmint, I am still breastfeeding. It seems to be hardwork to continue now that I have started work, but it is definitely satisfying when I see that it is all for the best of my son.
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Hope your M-I-L take cares of boys with other children. Take enough rest buddy.
keep up the good work bf :).
What do you mean " I don't see myself staying home and taking care of 3 boys ..." You see your MIL doing it instead ?
Geeta,
Hm. Ur MIl has agreed to take cae of all her grand children. that's indeed great!!
I never went for a second chiold , because my parents were too old and my in laws had other things that kept them occupies. And basically my mother made it clear that I should go for another provided I have the time and not if she would be able to.
I agree with her , though she supported me and took care of my son, rather still takes care. I probably would not let go of my age looking after my grandchildren
That's when I plan to live my life !!
Like Anonymous, I too don't understand what you meant by 'I don't see myself staying home and taking care of 3 boys'
Why have 3 kids then?
I am not insulting or undermining. Obviously, you love your kids and would spare little for their needs.
Just a genuine question because I really do not understand.
Also, why don't you just send the boys to a reliable babysitter, rather then add on MIL's burden (the 3 other grandkids under her care)? She's old right? If you can't bear being at home with 3 boys, what more her??
Please explain. I really would like to know.
Thank you & my humblest apologies if I've offended you in any way.
- Melissa
jeevan,
Thanks :)
jazzmint,
Thanks to you dear. It would not have been easier if not for your guidance :)
chitra,
She prefers it that way. That's why we provided her a maid. Now we are planning to get another.
If she doesn't want to take care of them, I would send the boys to a babysitter. But that wouldn't stop us from having more than one child. We wouldn't want to regret when we am much older. Both hubby and I like a big family :)
Although I would like to rest and enjoy my old age, I believe that spending time with my grandchildren is also rewarding. By the way, my in-laws do go for their holidays.. they are not tied down permanently :)
3 months already? That was really quick.
Glad you are still breastfeeding. :)
zara's mama,
Yeap.. time flies huh!
I am glad myself.. really feeling good about it :)
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